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"Sending the Right Message"
 Health and Wellness, Training and Resources

  Trainings and products to enliven your relationships, your health and your spirit. 


"You Can Count On Me"
Living Within Boundaries, and Feeling Your Love Flow Again
(Couples Workshop and On Going Training and Support) 

 Holy Deadlock

 Dr. Reuben Hill, in a sweeping study of American marriages described the majority of them as "Holy Deadlock."  To one degree or another, most of us have experienced this or are now experiencing it.  Not any more!

Join us in a fun and enlivening communication and marriage enhancement training.  It's going to be easier than you think.  In fact, that's the whole point.  You've been wondering where the owners manual is on your spouse.  We've got it!  And you're going to love the results.   


“After 20 years of trying to resolve marital and family issues, including 10 years of counseling and other programs we have finally realized the breakthroughs we’ve been seeking in John Canaan’s weekend workshops and follow up support.  Great relationships don’t just happen.  Start now with this program!”  – Kathleen Myers

                                  
  Communication Guidance Systems

  

There is an old saying: "Bridle your passions, that you may be filled with love."  

This is especially true with couples communication.  To one degree or another we marry someone who not only brings out the best in us, but the worst- and communication can be filled with loads of "passion" (in a not-so-fun sense).

The power (or "passion") involved in launching a NASA shuttle, in order to carry it's passengers onto the desired trajectory, requires an elaborate "guidance system."

Simililarly, without a good guidance system, "launching" on our spouse (or what we call "open firing") can quickly take your love ship off the desired path.  

Some of us have a natural guidance system, built right in- allowing us to handle all potentially charged communications with finesse, dignity and success.  If you are not one of those people you will really enjoy this.  


  Benefits of the YCCOM workshop
aSee your marriage as the exhilarating pathway to the spiritual treasures you seek.

aMake powerful agreements that will launch your marriage to the next level-- WAY to the next level!

aTrain your mind away from the nightmare of “fight or flight” to the wonderful world of "express, request and encourage."

aLearn 27 principles and practices to enhance all the good things you've got going in your marriage (and if the list of good things is a little shorter than you'd like, this is the perfect place to start.) 

aMaster communication processes that guarantee understanding, agreement, peace and love to be fully restored to your marriage!

               


Workshop Overview
 Life and Love Basics
Living in Door #1 (Inviting the spirit into my heart, by minding "my own business.")
Making every moment a gift
The greatest gift of all - Our Boundaries
Mastering “blame to pain”
Communication and Marriage Enhancement Basics
 The “Law of Cross Keys” – The “Law of Opportunity”
Why You chose each other, and what you need 
Unconditional Trust (and how to get there)
The power of "enrollment"
The importance of ”Clearing” and “Accounting”  (Two aspects of an open heart)
The power of apology
The power of acknowledgement and encouragement
The power of "guided communication.".

 "Handbook Training"
Section by section explanation and training.



The "You Can Count On Me" couples workshop includes:
-One day workshop retreat (topics on this page).
-Concert and social the night before (if applicable).
-YCCOM Agreements and Guidebook (You’ll never want to be without it).   
-Link to the continually updated internet version of the "You Can Count On Me" materials.
-Access to all conference calls, webinars and videos.

To register for the "You Can Count On Me" training and support call Narelle at: (801)548-8212 or click here: register

        

"You Can Count On Me" mantra

I see that you are not in the way of what I want. 
You are the way.  

It is through my relationship with you that I am learning about love in a way I never could have. That it is through the challenges in our relationship that I have the most amazing opportunity to become a man (woman) of compassion, patience, strength, understanding, humility, discipline and forgiveness. 
 
   It is through loving you that I come to know what love really is-- that it is not something that happens to me (as I’ve seen in the movies)— it is something, that happens in me.  It is the condition of my heart and soul.  And my heart and soul, in moving toward this condition have naturally brought me to exactly what I’ve needed— you.   In saying “I do” to you my journey to love became sure.

You are the way in this journey.    

      So, no matter how I feel from day to day, no matter what my inclination is to live in disappointment (an address I seem to enjoy sometimes), I promise you, that if you will do the same, I will continue to love you and serve you.  I will lift you, grow with you and take care of you.  I will come to know you-- every part of you—every little feeling-- every dream—every fear and every yearning.  I will hear you when you need to be heard.  I will see you when you feel invisible.  I will hurt with you when you hurt, laugh with you when you laugh, learn to care about what you care about and learn to do and say the things that make you feel the most loved.  But more so, I will be patient with you as you learn to love me.   Because I know it’s not always easy to love me.  But I will be faithful to you as you are learning.

     Thank you for your love.  Thank you so much for your love.  Because I do feel it.  Thank you for being my partner.  Thank you for your commitment—a commitment that is giving me a chance to find my Heavenly Father in a way I might not ever have been able to— to feel the peace He knows, and in a small sense, to be the love that He is. 

      I will always love you— In one way or the other, I will always be here-- and in being here, give more to you, to our children, to God and to everyone on this planet, than I ever could have, in any other way.  

You can count on me to love you.  




To register for the "You Can Count On Me" training and support call Narelle at: (801)548-8212 or click here: register